Couples Financial Harmony

Financial friction isn’t a math problem; it’s a communication gap. We help couples move past the "money fights" by aligning their individual histories into a unified financial vision.

Syncing Your Stories, Not Just Your Accounts

In most relationships, conflict arises not because of the balance in the bank, but because of the conflicting money scripts each partner brings to the table. One may view money as security (the "Saver"), while the other views it as a tool for experience or status (the "Spender"). When you add layers of past financial trauma or neurodiversity into the mix, it’s easy for communication to break down.

Our Couples Coaching provides a neutral, psychologically-safe space to deconstruct these patterns. Instead of assigning blame, we focus on behavioral redirection. We help you understand your partner’s "financial why," allowing you to build a shared financial identity that respects both individuals. Whether you are merging finances for the first time or navigating a major life transition, we provide the tools to turn financial tension into a source of connection and strength.

Goals of the Session

Our collaborative sessions are designed to create transparency and peace. During our work together, we focus on:

  • Mapping Financial Identities:
    Understanding how each partner's upbringing and past trauma influence their current views on money.
  • Translating Money Language:
    Bridging the gap in communication to ensure both partners feel heard and valued in financial decisions.
  • Building a Unified Vision:
    Creating a "Joint Value Statement" that serves as the North Star for your spending and saving.
  • Conflict Resolution Tools:
    Learning how to discuss finances without triggering defensiveness or anxiety.
  • Shared Systems:
    Developing practical, stress-free methods for managing money that account for different cognitive styles.

Ready to Begin Your Transformation?

Fill out the form below to request your Individual Financial Behavior Coaching consultation. Let’s start aligning your money with your mind.

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Debbie Slaughter, AFC® & FBS®: Helping you heal financial trauma and align your money mindset with your life’s true values.
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